Since our childhood, we have always seen our parents as the epitome of a loving, healthy relationship and growing up, learning from them, we have set high expectations for ourselves and find a partner that treats you just like your parents treat each other. So, here are some tips from Cupid Knot which you surely steal from your parents to live a successful married life.
Holding on :
You have learned everything from your parents, theirs is the only relationship you have witnessed up close, so whatever knowledge you have regarding a married life comes from them. We have always wondered why our parents hold on to each other even after their disagreement. They fight but they always come back to each other. The bond they share is precious and has evolved over the years.
Time is the best teacher :
Time is the best teacher and it teaches you persistence. Your parents started from scratch at a very young age. Hard and difficult times bring out the bond you have for each other. It’s in those times that you come to know what your partner needs from you and how you realize what you have to offer. Your understanding of each other goes deeper and with each passing year, there is a new chapter in your book.
Looking out for each other :
Your parents have the most sacred comfort zone, which needs years and years of endurance. They have seen the good as well as the hardships in raising their children, they have maintained relationships with their respective families together, they have built their own family together and now they know what the other person stands for and their ideologies. Your dad will always know what your mother is going to say even before you go to her and they take decisions on each other’s behalf. Knowing your partner inside out requires a lot of attention and dedication in your relationship.
Find perfection in imperfections :
Your partner might lack a few qualities that you hoped for, but nobody is perfect and they don’t have to be. Your dad might be the lazy one, and your mom is the one with OCD or vice versa. You both have your share of flaws and the more you discover them, the more perspective you’ll gain. Putting yourself in their shoes will make it easier for you when the same thing comes up again in the future. The acceptance parents have for each other is something in itself. Your mother might rant about a hundred things when it comes to your dad but at the end of the day, she will come around and stand by it when she needs to.
In sickness and in health :
This vow has so much depth to it, that it explains a marriage perfectly. You must have seen your parents standing by each other at times of sickness and times when money was tight. It’s in those times of celebration as well as a sickness which has brought them closer and intimacy just keep growing from there. It’s about not leaving your partner alone in any circumstance because humans need their closed ones at two most important times.
And if you are looking for a partner you can cherish your life with, just like your parents, get in touch with Cupid Knot, India’s most trusted matrimonial Services for all religions and communities in. Give us a call on +91 9909926929 | 0261 4800880 or visit cupidknot.com