3 effective ways of managing finance after your marriage.

So you thought that love was all you would ever require to keep you sailing in a marriage. Well, love it or hate it, but finance plays a crucial role in your marriage. More than you would put the thought in the matter while getting married. When you plan on marrying someone, you need to take care of tiny details. And finance is the most important of all.

 

Now, whether you would be handling all the finances of a family or you and your partner would be bringing in an equal share of financial responsibility in a marriage, it’s important to keep things in perspective to avoid any chaos. That being said, a large chunk of marriage leads to an ugly path and the prime reason remains to be financed. 

 

If you are looking for tips to manage the finance smoothly after your wedding, here are 3 effective tips for you. 

1. Discuss everything beforehand. 

 

Now, things are much clearer from a financial perspective when you have already been in love with your partner before marriage. That is to say, a love marriage partner usually has an idea of how things would work ahead financially after marriage. But, if are going ahead with arranging setup, it is important to discuss financial matters beforehand. 

 

These days, women in India are putting forth their legs in sharing financial responsibilities after marriage. Hence, you need to get a clear understanding of how much would be a share of each partner, who would be taking care of rental payments, debts, and investments for the future. 

 

Financial matters when clear beforehand, don’t get in your way of marriage.

 

 

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2. Spend but invest too.

 

The expenses are likely to increase after marriage. However, splurge but don’t overspend. Mutually discuss with your partner and start investing from the early start. Think of investing in policies where you could get benefits as a couple. Besides, it’s important to get clarity regarding investment decisions and their ownership, from beforehand. 

3. Plan and budget.

 

If you don’t keep a tab on expenses, you would overspend before you could even realize. We suggest you plan your expenses and a budget so that you don’t end up penniless by the end. Discuss with your partner; even when both of you are financially independent. It is important to plan the budget together, always.

 

You see, money saved is money earned. So, plan every expense. 

 

Lastly, involve your better halves in financial decisions. Even when they seem least interested. This is very important for the safety of your money and to avoid any future grudges. 

 

Well, financial matters; like marriage decisions require transparency. And the more transparent you are lesser are the chances of grudges afterward. At Cupid Knot, we believe in transparency and our matchmaking services speak of that in every ounce. Through our Jain matrimonial we offer individualized and confidential services to our clients without revealing their identities. 

 

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12 Signs He is Into You.

Love undoubtedly is the most beautiful feeling any human could ever experience. Do you remember that first time you had been crushing on a boy? If only you would have known signs to ensure that he was into you.

 

Well, Life is better when you have someone just by your side. Besides, what is life if not lived for love? Talking about love, we cannot miss talking about marriages. Marriage although not essential, especially in times of today, strengthens the foundation of your love. And while the leading popular matrimonial agencies in India could help you with your search for a life partner, how would you know if he is the perfect one.

 

Now, love might not be the only requisite for a successful marriage, but it indeed is crucial for keeping the marriage intact. Love ensures that the beautiful journey of marriage stays beautiful throughout. Here are the clear 13 signs that he is into you and very darn serious about you.

1.  He would always take out time for you.

He won’t take you for granted no matter what. Regardless of his busy schedule, he would find time to spend some quality time with you. After all, you would know how much he values your presence with his actions. This is the sign that he is into you. He won’t make excuses but find reasons to be with you. 

2. He would take responsibility for the relationship.

Relationships as we know are nothing but the ebb and flow of happy and tough times. If he is truly into you, he would always find ways to stick together. Despite innumerable arguments, he would always try keeping the relationship intact. 

3. He would communicate freely.

Communication doesn’t come easily to men. But if he is truly into you he would look forward to communicating with you. He would try opening up instead of bottling his feelings from you.

 

 

12 Signs He is Into You

4. He goes to extreme heights to keep you happy.

That special one would ensure that you stay happy. He would do things you adore and love. He would do anything to make you happy, even when it means stepping out from his comfort zone. You would see that when your happiness would become their priority.

5. He won’t hesitate to talk about the future.

Men as we know are quite afraid when it comes to future commitments. However, if he truly wants you he would never dodge the topic of the future or at least won’t avoid it. Instead, he might surprise you with hints of the future together.

6. He won’t shy away from showing his incompetent side.

Common, none of us is perfect. But embracing our faults in presence of others takes guts. If he is truly into you he won’t shy away from showing his weaknesses to you. He would be brutally honest to you.

7. You won’t face trust issues.

Trust your gut instincts. He won’t lie to you and you would be knowing that. In fact, trust won’t be an issue when you would be with him.

8. He actually listens.

You would know that. He would attentively listen to all your blabbers for hours. He won’t need to pretend to listen to you because he would be actually listening to you.

 

 

12 Signs He is Into You

9. He remembers every minute detail about you.

Right from the color you’re wearing to your favorite food and song, he would know it all. He would always make you feel special by noticing and remembering every minute detail about you.

10. He’ll look at you often.

And you might have caught them red-handed, of course for looking at you. It is said that when men are in love they would consciously and subconsciously lay their eyes on their partner.

11. He introduces you to his family.

This indeed is the greatest of all signs. When the guy introduces you to his family, trust us he is damn serious about you.

12. Lastly, he would say that.

As simple as that, if the guy is into you you would know when he says that. And yes, it might take months before he finally gives words to those feelings. But he would eventually pave in.

 

Well, you can tell a lot about a person’s interest in you from his body movements. Study his body movements around you and you would know if he is into you or not. Lastly, trust your gut instincts, it would hardly prove you wrong.

 

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5 challenges to an inter-caste marriage

We might be living in a culturally and religiously diverse country. However, marriages in India are still robust to cultural and religious changes. Leave religion aside, even an inter-caste wedding is a huge deal in this country. Well, we all must have seen those typical Bollywood romance stories where people are literally being killed in the name of inter-caste marriage. Guess what, it’s not completely filmy. 

 

Even today, caste issue prevails and the upper caste and lower caste marriage in India is still a matter of life and death, literally. Inter caste marriage is different from intra caste marriages, and the latter is even more difficult. The meaning of Inter-caste marriage is getting married to someone outside your immediate caste but within your religion but intra caste marriage is marrying someone from a completely different religion. 

 

Whatever the case may be, one thing is certain. Inter caste marriages in India aren’t simple. And here are 6 prominent challenges every couple in inter-caste would face. 

 

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  • Tarnished societal reputation.

Yes, the main reason for not opting inter-caste wedding is the damage it will bring to the family reputation. Not everyone has a steel of heart to face the backlash of society. In many cases, the family and the couples are banished from the society and community for getting married outside the community. 

No this isn’t an exaggeration. This is the sad reality that pertains even today. 

 

  • Lack of acceptance. 

In many cases of inter-caste marriage, parents break all the relations with their kids and part their ways. In many cases, the groom’s side of the family wouldn’t accept the bride and would add troubles and trauma to their married life. We are already aware of how women are mistreated by their in-laws. Well, in the case of an inter-caste wedding, this trauma amplifies. 

 

  • Upper caste and lower caste marriage

Many times, when the decision to marry is taken in the heat of the moment, the consequences are faced at the later stage. Couples cannot take up the difference in caste and may end up separating themselves. You see, caste is deeply ingrained in our minds. Hence, even when we claim to be modern and all educated, we cannot take the punch of inter-caste quite well, all the time. 

 

  • Religious problems.

Being an atheist is something that is not prevalent in India. Religion has an impact on our minds, even when we tend to disagree with it. Now, marriage is living with someone and accepting the wholes of each other. Hence, there are a considerable amount of chances that disputes arise because of religious disagreements amongst both partners. Now, dealing with such problems is not the trick everyone knows to excel. Hence, it requires 2 mature individuals to get in an inter-caste wedding.

 

  • One may end up losing their life.

Honor killing is still very persistent in India. Yes, we have progressed and education has made us capable enough to move above our caste. Yet, many can’t accept inter-caste weddings. And the ones with a great social upstanding often retort to honor killing to save their family from the dishonor of inter-caste marriage.

 

Are we against inter-caste marriages? Not at all. 

But we do agree that there are ample challenges to inter-caste wedding and you must get in one only when you have assured all the potential risks beforehand.

 

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The story of love and companionship, not so cliche.

Isn’t all we do, all we are and all we aspire to be, because of love? Love is what keeps us going and it is what makes everything worthwhile. It is falsely being glorified as sacrificing and compromising, wherein, in reality, there is nothing as empowering and as comforting as the strength of pure love.

While the trending show of Indian Matchmaking portrayed a rather covert picture of what it takes to get married in Indian society, this refreshing tale of Harsh and Kriya is a perfect example of how the presence of equality, trust and nurturing makes for a perfect relationship. 

This is how it all started.

We all miss our college days, don’t we? While some of us gained friends for a lifetime and collected splendid memories, some of us found our innocent love, probably for a lifetime. 

The spark in Kriya and Harsh tale began when he first met her during a debate competition. Awestruck by her wits, Harsh hardly spoke a word in the competition. Despite being in different sections, Harsh somehow managed to get in touch with Kriya. While Kriya didn’t pave in much to the attention, she somewhere was aware of the Harsh’s liking towards her.

As they say, woman’s instinct can never be wrong!! 

From waiting in college corridors before lectures to hanging together in the name of group studies, he always found a way to spend time together. But as any normal teen would say, Kriya was expert at delivering “We are just FRIENDS” dialogue. Soon long drives became a norm and texting became a habit. It was not until they were separated by a distance that Kriya realized a special spot for Harsh. Okay, the separation was not so dramatic, it was just a Dubai visit and they were not able to talk for 3 consistent days. From regular talks to no talks at all, the realization dawn upon her and she knew she can’t spend a day without talking to him. She knew it with surety that Harsh was the one. 

Enjoy life

 

They started dating and after a year of making insane memories together, they graduated in 2017. Kriya with her biggest of dreams and aspirations shifted to Mumbai for her further studies in Entrepreneurship management. It was the first time they were not seeing each other for weeks. As they say, distance hardly matters, ever. They managed through thick and thins and managed to keep their love afloat. 

Relationships are not built on compromise, they are built on love.

Kriya started her entrepreneurship academy for young children and incorporated Think Young at a mere age of 22 in 2018. Startups, as we all know, is much more than a fancy name. While she rushed between Mumbai and Surat taking seminars and growing her mind baby, Harsh through his seamless support made everything seem possible. Fast forward to 2020, today they are engaged and are looking forward to their wedding in December. 

 

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They are setting perfect barometer for life partner standards. Love isn’t the lovey-dovey text that you wake up to, love is standing beside your partner and pushing them through barriers. It is offering mutual respect to an individual’s career, choices and decisions. It is not letting the age-old notions stop you from believing in your partner. 

We all are ordinary but what makes us exceptional is the little extraordinary things we do. At Cupid Knot, we wish this inspiring couple a beautiful future ahead. We are sure 2020 is now to end on a better note.

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7 Things Women Look for in a Man

Gone are the days when women had little or no say in the choice of their life partner. The ambitious and educated women of today are aware of their worth and are not willing to settle for anything less than they deserve.

There is no common set of rules that makes a man perfect for the woman they want. Each woman looks for distinctive individuals in their partner and it would be wrong to generalise what women look for in a man. However, there are certain traits that tend to remain common in things woman seek in a man.

With the onset of numerous matrimony related services in India, it has become easier for a woman to find a man of their wants without having the need to compromise.

1. Honesty

Long-lasting relationships are based on the foundation of truth and honesty. Moreover, relationships see a dead-end rather soon when it lacks honesty. Of all the traits women expect their man to possess, honesty is the most prominent one. Women love a man who is honest about their needs, wants, expectations and priorities. It is easier for women to digest a brutal truth rather than being hanged on a cliff of uncertainty.

2. Maturity.

It is fun to be around someone who could be a kid at times but knows exactly when to hone their cape of maturity. Women tend to look for men who are mature enough to understand deep complications of life and the one who doesn’t see a world through a black and white lens. Thus, an individual who is mature enough to undertake the responsibility for long-lasting relationships attracts the women at large.

 

Things Women Look for in a Man

3. Emotional stability and presence

No, masculinity isn’t the only thing women look for in their man. More than masculinity women looks for a partner who could engage at a deeply meaningful level. Women are naturally attracted to men who are emotionally stable and possess a trait of emotional empathy. What good would be your partner if their macho characteristic stops you from expressing yourself? It is much easier to get along with an emotionally stable man then their opposite counterparts.

4. Ambition and goals.

After all, what is life without goals, dreams and aspirations? It is said that a man dies when he stops himself from wandering in his dreams. You see goals and aspirations are what makes each individual different from others. Having something to look forward to gives a charismatic touch to your personality. That spark is what women actively seek in their partners.

5. Confidence

Be it man or woman, both looks for a partner with a strong individual personality. Overconfidence is dangerous but lack of confidence is more lethal. Individuals with undulating confidence in themselves tend to attract more women.

 

Things Women Look for in a Man

6. Men who are clear with their wants.

Women don’t expect their men to be perfect. But they do look for someone they could be vulnerable with and vice versa. Women don’t like reading too much into a personality. They want someone who is clear with what they want and possess an exceptional ability to express themselves.

7. Chemistry

Last but not least, women seek a man with whom they could establish chemistry. Every relation is meant to be fun. If a man cannot treat her woman with equality, the chemistry would eventually fade away.

These not so comprehensive list includes the basic traits that are inevitable to the list of things woman look for in a man.

 

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7 Things Men Look For in a Woman

Over the centuries we have learnt that for men and women to make a successful relationship or marriage there must exist compatibility. However, you couldn’t look at a person and assess their compatibility with you. The sensitive aspects of compatibility arrive at a much later stage in a relationship. The initial phase begins with attraction followed by certain common traits that make men certain of their attraction towards a woman. And attraction in today’s time isn’t limited to physical appearance and beauty.

You see it is easier to find your ideal match through numerous matchmaking sites in India if you’re clear of what to seek in your woman. Availing the Indian matchmaking services allows you to find your ideal match without the need for compromising.

Let us guide you towards the prominently observed criteria in the checklist of men when they seek for a woman.

 

1. Knows what she wants.

It is widely misread notion that men like women to play around with what she wants. Men are more attracted towards women who are clear with what they want without playing around. Such women exude a sense of confidence and are more attractive to men. Women like these don’t waste time on people who don’t fit into their expectations criteria. Their entire existence doesn’t rely on the mere acceptance of a man.

 

2. Kind, understanding and empathetic.

Be it, men or women, both of them seeks for a partner who is kind-hearted not only towards their relationship but also towards the people outside. Besides, men don’t wish for a woman who stays in an imaginative world and has built a set of unrealistic expectations from their partner. Men are generally more attracted to a woman who understands the ebb and flow of life. Besides, it is quintessential for a woman to have an empathetic attitude towards their partner in life. You see, looks and beauty might gain your attention at first but these are the core values that make you a better person.

 

3. Good at expressing herself.

Men are usually less expressive than women and being expressive is what exactly men look for in their partner. Men don’t want a woman to expect them to be a mind reader. Instead, men wish woman to clearly express what she feels and what needs to be done to work out on the problem. In most cases, men are usually more attracted to women who are great communicators.

 

4. Emotionally stable

Emotionally stable women are what attracts men the most. No one has undertaken a mission of repairing your damaged self. Emotionally stable women are aware of their actions and don’t blame circumstances for their life. They are in and out in total acceptance with themselves and doesn’t require a partner to share their emotional burden with. You see, mean craves for a happy relationship as much as women and only two stable individuals make for a healthy relation.

 

Things Men Look for in A Woman

 

5. Independent

Lastly but not least, men expect their woman to be independent. You see, relationships or marriage these days aren’t 50-50. It is in fact 100-100 efforts of each partner. Rather than expecting a better half, men these days expect for a partner in crime.

 

6. Accepting.

Men want the woman who is accepting towards the dreams, aspirations and goals of their partner.
The woman or man, a relation could be successful only when there is a mutual understanding and respect towards the growth of each partner. Men are attracted by a woman who isn’t lost in their own world and takes a keen interest in their partner’s life also.

 

7. Appreciative and supporting.

Your partner is your biggest supporter and worst critic. Men appreciate the presence of those women who are supportive of their partner. Partners should be a morale booster and not doubt feeders.

It isn’t the secondary aspects of your personality that a man is attracted to but an underlying core values that make you unique and special to them.

 

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